Tuesday, July 13, 2010
A Life Accelerated
The tales of the our recent accelerated life and the joys therein.
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GFCF Update
OK, we have this GFCF thing down. John Mark is an excellent self-regulating kid, too. I know this would be such a pain if he were a "food sneaker." So, thank the Lord he's not.
We have tweaked things and I've got things pretty fine tuned now to fit our particular needs. First off, it feels sorta like detective work to find GFCF foods that are yummy AND affordable. And then, after reading the aforementioned book (see last post: Going GFCF), we gradually pulled out of his diet all of these things, too:
- HFCS (high fructose corn syrup)
- artificial food colors
- artificial flavorings
- preservatives
A pretty good rule of thumb is if it's hard to pronounce, put it back on the shelf. Or if it's a string of initials (e.g., BHT, EDTA), put it back because it was such a long word of chemical soup that it's a preservative or some other artificial something we don't need. I've also traded out his toiletries for friendlier options, as well as our cleaners, etc. I'm trying to incorporate more organic foods into our diet, too. Yes, it's all more expensive, but I don't care if I see improvements in my kids. I'll cut a different corner elsewhere.
So, I'm an avid label reader now. It's amazing what good things we become and will do when we're fighting for our kids.
And John Mark continues to make improvements. He even notices and has verbalized the differences and improvements. For example, he told me one day that the thing he noticed was that all those noises that his brother and sister used to make when he was trying to concentrate on school, well, he "just can turn that sound off now in [his] head." And I understand what he means. Tom and I know that John Mark just seemed to [previously] have an "open mic" that sent any sound directly to his head and he was pretty hyper-sensitive to even quieter noises that most everybody else wouldn't even be aware of. He'd get more and more frustrated and distracted by those noises. Now, not so much.
So, thank you Lord, for all the improvements we're seeing and how our sweet boy's personality is emerging!
Tuesday, January 12, 2010
Going GFCF
Okay, newest developments: I started John Mark who has Asperger's Syndrome on the GFCF (gluten-free, casein free) diet about six months ago. The GFCF diet is thought to help with autistic like symptoms. Gluten is found in breads, crackers, cakes, grains like wheat, rye, etc. Casein is in all dairy products like milk, cheese, yogurts, etc. The short of it is that it is theorized that gluten and casein act like little opinoids (think "opiate-like") in their bodies and cause all kinds of havoc. So, you remove the gluten and casein, give the gut time to heal, and autistic symptoms lessen. That's a MAJOR oversimplification of things, but you have Google just like I do. Look at http://www.gfcfdiet.com/ or other sites and you'll get the jist of it.
All that to say, WOW! This is really, really making a difference with our sweet boy. We've removed gluten and casein from his diet and he is becoming a different boy! I am so pleased with the results we're seeing. He has much better eye contact, he is funny ON PURPOSE, he is more "with it" and engaged in conversations, he is just sorta "waking up." He's always been very high functioning, so I'd poo-pooed on the idea of going GFCF thinking that the benefits wouldn't outweigh the hassle and expense. Well, my humble pie is going down much easier to see my wonderful boy and his personality come out.
We've been doing this for about six months (since the start of the 2009-2010 school year). We have also added in giving enzymes too to help with digestion. I'm learning how to be a decent GFCF cook. We're making headway for sure. And it is worth it. I've been told that it can take 8 months to a year to see results. Well, we started seeing results just a couple of months into it. So, we are staying the course.
One of my main resources has been the book by Barrie Silberberg entitled: The Autism & ADHD Diet. (see her website at www.puttingyourkidsfirst.com for more info).
Good info. Will post an update.
Monday, October 6, 2008
Marie Callender's Revenge
Saturday night, small Texas town. Youth league football game in progress. She was perched in the top row of the bleachers with two of her children. Third child on the football field keeping the water bottles well guarded. She was trying to set up the brought-along "dinner" which consisted of (mothers everywhere brace yourselves for the shocking menu to follow) two Preservative Pots (aka, Marie Callender's Chicken Pot Pies) (yes, it's weird football game food, but she'd already nuked them and the family was running late, so she threw them in the car with some plastic forks and thought they'd just manage). Back to the menu: okay, two pot pies as already mentioned, CapriSuns, and Little Debbie "Cosmic Brownies." (Fit that onto the MyPyramid.gov website.)
As the children were peacefully eating their chicken pot pies (yes, it's a little odd, acknowledged that already), she bumped her mobile phone.The phone came loose from the clip on her pocketbook. She began to frantically try to prevent its sudden-death plunge through the spaces on the bleachers to the ground several feet below. In a moment that shall remained frozen in her mental DVR for all time, the phone bounced around a bit, and then, alas, dear readers, landed in one of the children's pot pies. Charging port side in first. (The little hole thing where the charger plugs in, that is.)
For a moment, she froze. Unable to act. Staring at the phone sticking up out of the pot pie. She was momentarily reminded of the Reese's Peanut Butter Cup commercial from her childhood where two Brits alternately exclaim, "You goht youh peanut buttah in my chocolate." and "You goht youh chocolate in my peanut buttah." She also immediately regretted her new "small-pocketbook-woman" tack she'd recently adopted because that meant all hopes of a Kleenex, napkin, or even a child's Pull-Up as had been known to dwell in previous larger pocketbooks, were fruitless. She equally regretted wearing a hand-wash only, light-colored shirt with new pants which made the thought of wiping her gravy phone on the clothing an unpleasant prospect. So, she did what any mom would do: she freed the phone from the pot pie mire, winced at the sucking sound of the phone releasing itself from artificially flavored gravy, and began to lick it clean.
The absurdity of the moment was in no way lost on her; and her pride was somewhat bruised by the sniggers of fellow spectators (namely, two bratty teenagers whose view of a 37-year-old woman licking her mobile phone at a football game managed to break their otherwise laser beam focus on photographing themselves with their gravy-free picture phones.) The former schoolteacher rose up in this woman and she quickly acknowledged to the girls that she was, in fact, licking her phone and in her best peeved tone inquired as to whether these girls might have a tissue about them. When they gave their best Lindsay Lohan impersonation of a "Whatever!" shrug, she resumed her cleaning process.
Fast forward to the next day: her phone has now begun to operate in what her cheeky, impudent husband refers to as "random mode." It now seemingly has the ability to "charge" even though it's not plugged into any charger of any sort. It is also fond of the "CAR KIT" mode which she was unaware even existed. It makes a irksome chime UP/chime DOWN sound as it seemingly scrolls through its now scrambled brain for a place to land. It sound like a question followed by an answer; the tone goes up (question?), the tone goes down (answer!) "Pot pies stink?" "You betcha!" or maybe "Get a new phone?" "'Fraid so."
This downcast, poor humbled woman has spent the better part of this evening weighing the pros and cons of new gravy-free mobile phones for her and her husband. Her head is swirling from phrases like, "VCast," "Bluetooth," "VGA," and all manner of contract lingo that the wireless phone company sets forth. She feels a slight stab of pain/embarassment mingled with financial nausea at the prospect of indentured mobile phonehood for the next 24 months, and all because of a sorry pot pie.
The moral of the story is perhaps a bit elusive. Maybe it's about listening to your inner voice talk about MSG and preservatives because maybe more than your health is at stake---it could be your technology, too. Maybe it's about not taking weird food to football games. Or maybe it's just about giving one's friends the opportunity to laugh their fannies off at one's follies. Take your pick. And let this dear woman know which option you choose. But just don't call her-----her mobile is still far too screwed up to take calls.
Friday, June 27, 2008
New Pix
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Wichita Mountains, Oklahoma
Friday, November 2, 2007
Our trip to the GA mountains and IP's 4H victory on 01 Nov
Mom, this pic above is mostly for your benefit (or maybe not) of a view of the mountains to churn up memories of the "Grans' Mountain Trip" as the kids refer to it. The leaves were not in full color yet, but I'd bet they're just glorious now. (Cue gnashing of teeth.)
Timmy (IP's buddy who came along for the ride----was great for IPS to have a buddy along), IP and JM at the railing of the big waterfall we all hiked down to.
I love this picture of AM and her daddy admiring the waterfall. Isn't she great?
"Cowboy Jack" posing for a moment before he had to dash down the walkway.
Now to pix of the 4H Food Show:
Wednesday, June 20, 2007
Lady AM
AM is old enough to go to a local VBS this year and she wanted to wear this dress tonight and that particular hairbow, as well. After I got her dressed, we even fixed her hair a little as well; she was soooo pleased with the way she looked. And I also thought that she looked so much the lady that I took her outside and had to take a few quick pix of her. The pictures of her hands I cannot quite explain----she was moving them around a lot and I was just fascinated with the way she was moving them. She looked so much older in that dress, but her hands still looked like the little girl hands I know, so maybe I just wanted to take lots of pictures of her hands to remind me that she's still a little girl even though she looked a lot older in that dress! You be the judge.